This is my handkerchief
gray at the edges.
A prayer for the dead I have folded
or a dove asleep in my hands.
Dad gave one to each of us
at his father’s funeral.
We never seem to remember
such things, though
we have both buried too many
and many too young.
Cotton milled to capture tears
should be blue
with a bold design
to draw my grief down
and away over grass
cut short, stones laid flat.
Waiting for the mower
and the wind.
–Kyle Kimberlin
Signal Fires, 2000